We attach ourselves to love
And when it goes we feel the heartbreak,
We don’t see that loves not gone
That we were let down by the person we loved,
We were not let down by love
We fail to see the ability to learn and grow from it,
And find love in others that is maybe stronger, deeper, different,
We focus on ourselves and revel in the victim mindset
Why was I not good enough?
What’s so wrong with me?
Truth is the answer to both questions is it’s not you,
It was about them who let you down
You need to know you can be the same person,
That attracted their love in the first place,
However if we become sad and bitter
And allow the experience to turn us into s different person,
We can become less attractive than before
Because you will be showing off your scars like a medal,
Or like an open wound to others you meet
Though they may not want to see them,
They want to see your love, light and beauty
So embrace the change, the opportunity to find new love,
When an old love dies.