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Each moment that passes, each experience we go through should be lived and cherished fully, as these moments and experiences create memories. Memories are the wonderful things that can define our very lives and impact on our happiness. In each moment it is vital to create good memories wherever and whenever we can.
This will often mean forgiving those that may seek to hurt us or seek to cause us pain. For although they may seek to cause us pain and hurt we do not have to allow them to affect our long term lives. Wounds heal and scars fade. pain and hurt are baggage we can decide to carry with us on our journey, which will weigh us down or we can choose to put them down and refuse to be saddled with things that others have tried to put onto us.
it is the same with loss. Loved one do not choose to leave us but it happens, and when this does we are left to deal with the stress and the grief of that loss. However once again we can choose if we carry that loss with us as baggage and a burden weighing us down or we can choose to simply take it with in the form of happy memories about those we have loved and lost. it is normal to grieve and normal to feel pain but it is also important to understand that it is also OK to let go of that Grief and pain without feeling guilty about it. I know through this experience that often it is all we have left of those loved ones and the worry is if we do let go they will be lost forever. But in memories no one is ever lost, they remain with you in your heart, mind and soul for all time.
So my friends make each day a day of light a day of love and forgiveness and a day where you lighten your load of emotional burden which weigh you down. Make this the day you walk through life in happiness creating amazing and wonderful memories in every moment walking away from the stress and the grudges the hurt and the pain the loss and the grief, for we are here for but a short time and we must learn to make the most of it and leave your mark as one who lived and loved well.